My Favorites: Makeup!

Heres, the thing. I’m no expert in makeup, but I’ve tried a lot of things and get asked what I wear. So here we go! These are some of my current faves!

Lancome Hypnose Drama Instant Full Body Volume Mascara (say that 10 times fast)
Too Faced Natural Eyes Eyeshadow Palette
(So I actually still have the old version of this, oops. Makes me wonder if it’s time to throw out. I haven’t tried their updated one, but looks like they have some similar colors.)
Violet Voss The Rainbow Eyeshadow Palette (Flamingo is my favorite hot pink eyeshadow ever!)

Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Wiz
Benefit Brow Setter Shaping and Setting Gel

Rodan + Fields Radiant Defense (bonus that it has SPF)
Givenchy Healthy Glow Bronzer
Anastasia Beverly Hills Blush Trio (A little goes a long way! Very pigmented!)
Too Faced Diamond Light Multi-Use Highlighter
Make Up Forever Full Cover Concealer
Dior Forever Extreme Control

MAC Cosmetics (TWIG)
MAC Cosmetics (MEHR)

Urban Decay Setting Spray


“I’m a fake plant person”.

That’s what I would always tell myself. I will never be able to keep a plant alive, so I’m just gonna be a fake plant person. Some people just have the green thumb while others weren’t granted this gift. I had accepted what I though was my fate until it was time explore the subject of houseplants for an episode of adult(ed). Plants bring life into a home, they’re cute, and dare I say trendy. I knew this was something we needed to talk about and that Hannah Westby would be the perfect expert to guide us on this journey.

Give Me Something Low Maintenance
Hannah introduced us to some plants that any new plant parent can manage:

Pothos (These come in a variety of looks. From golden, to marble queen, neon and more)
Monstera (Thrives in bright to medium light, not good in direct sunlight)
Prayer Plant (This plant raises and lowers it’s leaves from day into night)
Rubber Plant (I’ve always heard this is a great lower maintenance alternative to a fiddle leaf fig)
Snake Plant (This plant can survive low light levels)

To Repot or Not Repot
One of the scariest things to me when it comes to houseplants is repotting. I don’t know why, but I’m afraid something will upset the plant or that it won’t have the best drainage. I’ve had plants drown because they didn’t have proper drainage and you can’t come back from terrible root rot! I will tell you this next tip has changed my life as a new plant mom. Keep your plant in the original plastic container it came in because it generally has much better drainage. Place it in a pot that you can easily pop the plant in and out of. When it’s time to water, take the plant out of the pot and bring it to a sink to water it and then let it drain there. Once it’s gotten some time to drain, pop it back into your stylish pot. It makes the whole process feel so much easier! Of course, eventually you will find your plant is thriving and may need a new home, but until then try this method out. It will also give yourself time to grow and become a confident plant parent who’s ready to repot.

Bug Off
One tip that Hannah gave when dealing with bugs and your plants is to set a small cup of apple cider vinegar near your plant to attract the gnats that are eating away at it. I additionally read somewhere that adding a little dish soap to the vinegar can help with trapping them once they are attracted to the vinegar. Thankfully there’s still hope to save plants from little pesky bugs before throwing it out!

Watch Your Fur Babies
Something I learned when I became a plant mom was that I needed to be mindful of where I put my plants and make sure my dogs couldn’t get to them. Not just because it would be a bummer for the plant if they got into them, but some common houseplants like pothos and monsteras can actually be harmful to your pet if ingested. So as you shop for your new plants, do your research or ask questions so you know what could be hazardous to your doggo.

So Many Ways To Grow
The crazy thing is we only scratched the surface when it comes to houseplants, but I hope you learned something new and walked away confident enough to get the houseplants you always wanted, but were afraid you’d kill. I have to say, it made me so happy when I ran into our guest Sterling a couple months after filming and not only were her plants still alive, she bought more! I even felt brave enough to get a monstera and some pothos that are currently thriving, so anything is possible.

We came. We Saw. We Adulted.


adult(ed) EPISODE 9: TAXES!

Where do I even begin! My mind has been spinning trying to figure out how I even start to write a blog post for this episode. If you find yourself in the deep end of adulting and want some tips when it comes to Taxes, I highly suggest you watch this episode to learn more! It’s information overload, but makes things feel a little less scary. If there were a few big points I took away, these were them…

Check the Receipts
One tip our expert David mentioned was keeping a hold of your receipts. With my job, I’m able to write off things like gas and even grooming needs (nails, hair etc) at times! But sometimes those receipts get stuffed into the bottom of a purse. Something I have found to be so helpful is to keep a little zip pouch in my car for putting all those loose ones in when I’m on the go. At least you know they are all in one place!

Start Thinking of the Future
Believe it or not, the time to start investing in your future is now. It’s great to be thinking about a retirement plan and putting money aside each year to go towards that fund. Not only is it good to be preparing for the future, but it’s going to lower the amount you pay in income taxes. Ask your employer about getting enrolled in a 401(k) or if you are self employed look into an SEP.

Set Aside for Taxes
The worst thing that can happen is getting hit with all these taxes you owe and watching your bank account drown over night. Trust me, this is not a place you want to be in. Get an idea of what you made in the previous years to get a rough estimate of what you could owe the next. Setting aside a little each month to go towards that pile will save you a major headache when it comes to paying your taxes. Plus, you have a much better idea of what you (actually) have in your account!

We came. We saw. We adulted.


I recently became another level of self-aware when I read a couple of books on the Enneagram and discovered I was 9. Something I found interesting about myself was that aside from being prone to procrastination (which I’ve known about myself for a while) it can be hard for me to finish a task at times because I see everything as equal importance (without even realizing). So, things don’t always get prioritized. Then that day comes when I get tired of opening our linen closet to see a disaster, so I’ll start to take everything out and begin organizing. When I go get some water I may notice that our drink ware is a disaster too and so I’ll begin working on that before finishing the other task.

Organizing, although pretty simple sounding on paper, can be quite the task at times for many reasons. And if you’re like me it can be easy to want to take it all on at one time. In this episode of adult(ed), Ashley from Creativley Neat broke it all down for our guest Kim and I, so we can all tackle getting organized one step at a time.

Where do I start?
Ashley broke down the process of organizing into three simple steps:


We started with the first step, by taking literally everything out of Kim’s closet and putting items that were alike together. So the hats went with the hats, the pants with the pants, and some of those random items that didn’t make sense in her closet together. It was so helpful to lay it all out so we could actually see what was in her closet.

Next began the purge. This is the step where you decide if you will be keeping or saying goodbye to some of your items. I sometimes start a bag for donate or trash during the sort process, but if you need a moment to see everything laid out in for you first, this is when the purge will happen. If you’re immediate gut says “no” it might be time to let go of that item. Ashley mentioned too, that we never need to feel obligated to keep a gift from someone we love if we no longer want it because it doesn’t represent that love you have for that person. I thought this was a helpful tip during this purge step, to know it’s okay to let something go so it could serve someone else.

Once the purge is complete it’s time to put it all back. This is the step where we find a home for everything. A tip to take away was “file, not pile”. Filing our items in a way where we can actually see what we have is so helpful. When we begin to pile things to a point where we can’t see them, we slowly find ourselves back to where we started as we put things back. During this process you may also do things like label, so you can see what goes in that “home”.

One Closet at Time
If there was one thing I could emphasize on from the episode it would be this: you don’t have to organize your life all at once! Take it one step at a time. One closet at a time, one drawer at a time. If you want to take a weekend to do it all, more power you, but know you don’t need to! Also, know you don’t need to go out and buy organizing containers right away. We all love our containers. I literally think The Container Store might be one of my favorite places in this world, but buying a lot of cute baskets can be expensive at times. Plus, it’s so helpful to know what you actually want to put in a storage container before you go to the store. Some of those items might be purged and no longer need a home under your sink. Use what you have in the mean time even! Don’t let the thought of it needing to be more aesthetic keep you in the way of starting to get organized. Just take it a little at a time.

The Importance of Being Organized
I’m sure there are so many more reasons, but here are some of my takeaways on how organizing can be great for you life.

You can actually see you inventory.
Doesn’t it feel nice to actually know what’s in your closet? So before you buy a new pair of those cute black ankle high boots you saw on amazon, you may have some buried in the back.

It just feels better
When I open up a closet where things aren’t pouring out of it, that takes some stress off. When I can go to a drawer looking for some scissors and know exactly where they are that feels so good!

Creates healthy habits
Everything has a home and if we get in the habit of putting everything in those homes, we will stay organized. Little things like when we get home and hanging our jacket instead of throwing it on a chair or after brushing your hair, putting it away instead of leaving it on the bathroom counter. We all need to create some good habits in our lives and getting organized can help start some new ones.

To learn more tips on getting organized watch the full episode here.

Once you ready to get some items to get to another level of organized check these out:
Storage Bins
Hanging Closet Organizer
Drawer Organizer



I don’t remember the exact moment I started to enjoy wine, but now a wine and cheese night is the dream. I think it began when Cooper and I got different bottles of wine from our wedding venue (it was a vineyard) and we decided to try one each week. Over time, I began to discover the things I liked and felt confident enough to choose what I wanted with dinner, but it wasn’t always like that.

Wine Doesn’t Have to Be Pretentious
I don’t know about you, but the idea of wine used to make me feel like I couldn’t enjoy it if I didn’t know about the region it came from or if I couldn’t articulate what flavor notes it had. This feeling was made more overwhelming by one of my first experiences ordering wine at a restaurant. Cooper and I had just gotten engaged and were celebrating at a nice restaurant in New York. We thought it would be nice to have some wine with our meal, since it was a celebration after all. The thing was, at the time we really only knew that wine was red or white and that we once enjoyed a “cab sav”. We looked for help from the in house sommelier. We told her our budget, that we didn't have much experience with wine, but were excited for her to share something new with us. Her response was less than enthusiastic and made us feel extremely belittled. Like we were unworthy of her extensive collection of wine at the restaurant. Cooper and I both walked away remembering that exchange much more than the wine we drank.

I shared this story on set with our expert for this episode, Dr. Ryan Hess, who expressed beforehand to take advantage of the people who are there to help you find a wine. Even at your local grocery store, there is someone there who at least knows what the most popular ones are. Unfortunately, one bad expert turned me off from the idea of asking about wine when I shopped for it, but over time I learned not to let one bad experience stop me. There are so many people out there who are ready to help!

Does Wine Need to Be Expensive to Be Good?
The short answer is: No. You probably won’t find a good wine for under $10, but you can find something good from even $12-$15. In the episode, our guest Rydel loved the cheapest of the 3 wines! At the end of the day, it’s up to your personal preference on what wine you enjoy. Ryan did leave us with some good advice on how to find quality wines at any price when you’re scanning the aisles.

1. Don’t let the cute labels fool you
Ryan found that the majority of mass produced wines will try to draw you in with a really cute or pretty label. This might be a sign that the outside of the bottle is more important to them than what’s on the inside of the bottle. This doesn’t always determine the quality of a wine, but it’s a good thing to keep in mind. Try going for a more classic or simple looking label.

2. Darker bottles protect the wine
This generally applies to finding a quality red wine, but if you can’t see the color of the wine, that’s probably a good sign. People that care about preserving the quality of the wine will use bottles that protect the wine from the sun.

3. Check the weight of the glass
Higher quality wines will usually spend more money on the glass. Again, this is about protecting the wine in the bottle.

Things You Might Want
If you are going to be enjoying wine at home here are some things you may need/want.
Wine Glasses (of course)

And if you’re like me and are too lazy for the corkscrew, try an electric wine opener.

However you enjoy wine, be sure to drink legally and responsibly <3

To learn more, be sure to check out the episode here!

We came. We saw. We adulted.



Puppies!!! We all love them and if you don’t, well, we’ll just assume you had a traumatizing experience where they gave you too many kisses and were too cute to even handle. But with as much as we love them, being a first-time pet parent to one of these little guys can be A LOT. Like more than you may realize, or at least more than I did. I grew up in a home with dogs, and one that stayed with me all the way into adulthood (RIP sweet Sissy). I never had to deal with the ins and outs of a puppy on my own until a couple years ago. I didn’t realize how much training would be involved and all I knew was that treats would be a good place to start. I didn’t feel equipped to teach a little floof to understand my language as I tried to understand them. Although, I somehow managed to teach Sissy “sit”, “stay”, “roll over”. “hi-five”, etc. I think that was because she was either one of the smartest dogs ever, or I was my own little dog whisperer at 7 years old.

In this episode we are helping out our friend Alex and his new pup Karen with the help of Claire Anderson (a behaviorist/dog trainer).

The Expert Knows Best
With this subject, it really is so beneficial to hear Claire, our expert, as she breaks everything down! If you haven’t seen it yet watch the episode here to learn about training your doggo. From positive reinforcement to socializing on a leash, she shows us how to get started and explains it in a way that’s easy to duplicate.

Potty Training
This just might be one of the hardest parts of having a new dog in your life. I’ve definitely cleaned up my fair share of unwanted stains on my rugs and was not thrilled to find the presents left for me. Keeping a watchful eye on your new dog will be so important in this process. I even found it helpful to keep them out of certain areas of the house so they had less room to roam. Claire also suggested using an extra special treat when rewarding your pup for going where you want them too. Having that incentive be even greater will help with this process! Claire suggested using something like chicken or cheese and storing it in your fridge so it’s ready to go, when your dog is ready to go (if you know what I mean).

Let’s Be Friends
Socializing you dog is a great thing to do. I loved that Claire had us start both Karen and Poppy on leashes. She also suggested using a leash that’s not retractable, so keep that in mind when shopping for one.
After letting Poppy and Karen check each other out for a moment, we separated them again to give them a moment before brining them back together. Once it was all clear and it seemed like they were getting along, we were free to let them off their leashes so they could play. It’s good to have control over the situation in case something were to go awry. You don’t want anyone to get hurt!

My Dog’s Favorites
Here are some of the toys that my dogs have loved playing with! They love having something to chew on!
Chuckit! Ultra Ball!
KONG Goodie Bone

If you are not sure where to get started when it comes to toys and treats Bark Box is a great place to start! We were gifted a subscription and continued it for a while because our dogs loved it so much!

If you are looking for a behaviorist/trainer or want to learn more from our expert Claire click here!

We came. We saw. We adulted.



Before Cooper and I got married, we took premarital counseling. It was a requirement by the person who was marrying us, but I would go back and make the choice myself all over again. It was one of the best things we could’ve done to get our relationship on the right foot forward.

In this episode, we are talking all about the things that make a healthy relationship! Our expert Alex condensed some of those fundamentals into a few basic ideas.

Alex kicked off an episode on relationships by talking about our relationship with ourselves first. He starts off by saying that it’s important for us to have insight and understanding of who we are and to seek self-awareness. I don’t know about you, but this actually terrifies me when we get down to it. I don’t want to dig into myself more and more, it can be a scary thing. Although it’s not an easy journey, I do believe it’s an important one. I recently started to uncover and find more understanding of myself through the Enneagram. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s worth a google. It’s an ancient personality type system that can be a great tool to help you better understand yourself. I’m currently reading “The Road Back to You” by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile which breaks down the different types of the Enneagram in an easy-to-digest way. There are so many books out there to explore on the Enneagram and it’s just one of the ways to help seek that self-awareness Alex talked about. He then goes on to say if we can better understand who we are and why we react the way we react, it will help us to communicate how we are feeling better to our partner.

Having a team mentality is so important in your relationship. It’s no longer about looking at things as what’s best for me or you, but what’s best for us? I have found that this mentality creates a sense of security and safeness in your relationship and really helps with making big life decisions. It takes the focus off of just you and makes it about the whole.

Active listening is such a great exercise to use when trying to talk through a conflict. On paper, it sounds like it would be an easy. One person calmly explains how the conflict made them feel, the other person listens without interrupting, and then the person listening repeats back what they heard the other person say, then asks “Did I get that right?”. Easy right? Until your emotions are tugging at you or you want to blurt out why you think the other person is wrong. There have been times in my life where Cooper and I practiced this, but then it did escalate to talking over each other and not really hearing from one another. It takes practice to get good at it, but it feels so good when both of you actually feel heard. Then you can move forward together feeling like the other person at least knows where you are coming from. Even in the episode, the conflict of “the fork” obviously had deeper emotions attached to it. Active listening can help uncover those.

The last little tip that Alex left us with was to always put effort into your relationship. It can be so easy to stop doing the little things that we did early on in the whirlwind of a new relationship. Little things, like buying flowers, giving words of encouragement, helping out with chores. It takes effort, so keep trying. If you ever want a better understanding of what little things could mean a lot to you, try reading “The Five Love Languages” book. It really helped me get an idea of what makes me feel the most loved and what makes Cooper feel the most loved.

I hope you were able to take away something from today’s episode! There are definitely things that can be applied to all relationships, not just romantic ones.

We came. We saw. We adulted.



When I was around 18, I started to work with a movement coach to get more comfortable with moving around on stage. Stepping into it, I thought maybe he’d show me how to handle a mic stand, some simple hand motions, but what I didn't expect was that I would be starting each session with a 30 minute work out. Up until that point, I don’t think I had truly experienced working out. I sort of pinned myself as the non-athletic type which meant working out would probably never be my thing outside of a treadmill. He was the first person to really stress the importance of getting to know, taking care of, and loving my body in that way. It woke me up! How was I going to feel comfortable moving around a stage completely when I wasn’t even fully aware of my body? It really opened up my whole approach to my “why” and I saw how even if you aren’t the “athletic type” taking care of your body in this way was so important.

Let’s Get to Workin’
When we were brainstorming potential subjects for the show, working out came on top pretty early. If you don’t have someone guiding you, stepping into a place like a gym for the first time can be super intimidating. Where do you even start? In this episode of adult(ed), Natalie simplified some ways to work out your booty, legs, and tone your arms just using plates and resistance bands. To check out all the exercises be sure to watch the episode here.

Fuel Up
We didn’t have time to fully dive into all of Natalie’s recipes, but she sent us a list of some of her faves to get your started!

Spinach Pancakes
4 egg whites 
1/3 cup oat flour 
2 bunches of spinach
1 tsp psyllium husk 
2 TBSP pumpkin purée 
5 vanilla stevia drops 
Dash of cinnamon 

Mix in blender. Pour onto pan or griddle.
Cook on medium high and flip around a minute or when golden brown.

Pumpkin & Chocolate Pancakes
4 egg whites 
1/4 cup almond flour 
1 TBSP cacao powder 
1 tsp psyllium husk 
4 TBSP pumpkin purée 
5 vanilla stevia drops 
Dash of cinnamon 

Mix in blender. Pour onto pan or griddle.
Cook on medium high and flip around a minute or when golden brown.

Chocolate Peanut Butter Cookies
¼ cup coconut oil
½ cup natural peanut butter 
¼ cup stevia powder by Enzo
2 TBSP ChocZero sugar free maple syrup
1 large egg
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups whole wheat pastry flour
¾ tsp baking powder
½ tsp baking soda
Dash of salt
¾ cup cacao nibs

Preheat oven to 350F. In a large mixing bowl, mix together coconut oil, peanut butter, syrup and stevia. Add the large egg and vanilla extract. In a separate bowl, whisk together whole wheat pastry flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Using a wooden spoon, stir the dry ingredients into the wet ingredients. Stir in the Nibs. Roll into balls and fork it criss cross. Bake for 8-10 min. 

Turkey Meatballs
2 lbs of 97% Organic Ground Turkey meat
1 TBSP crushed garlic 
Unsalted seasonings of choice 
Dash of sea salt or Himalayan Pink Salt 
2 shredded zucchini (optional)
1 egg white 

Mix it all together and shape into balls then place them on non-stick foil on a baking sheet.
Bake at 385 degrees for 20 minutes.

Apple Turkey Burgers (great for breakfast, too)
Sautée 1 apple with cinnamon and vanilla on a pan with coconut oil spray 
Mix apples with 2 lbs lean 97% Organic Ground Turkey packages with 2 tsp of cinnamon. 
Scoop out into balls and grill or bake at 385 degrees for  20 min. 

Salmon Filet
Lay Salmon on baking sheet in foil enough to wrap it up. 
Squeeze lemon juice, crushed garlic, fresh dill on top. 
Bake at 400 degrees for 20-25 minutes

Sweet Potato Fries
5 sweet potatoes or yams 
Cut up into fries or rounds 
Lay on baking sheet sprayed with coconut oil
Top with cinnamon or garlic spray with coconut oil
Bake at 400 degrees for 30 min.

Butternut Squash
pre-cut or cut into pieces with skin
Lay on a baking sheet of non stick foil or spray with coconut oil
Sprinkle cinnamon on top and spray with coconut oil
Bake at 400 degrees for 30 min.

⭐️Sometimes after it’s roasted Natalie says she will blend it and store it as soup!

Spaghetti Squash
Microwave the squash a minute or so to soften a bit to cut in half. 
Cut in half, scoop out seeds and spray with Extra Virgin Olive Oil spray.
Sprinkle garlic powder and sea salt on top.
Bake at 400 degrees for 1 hour.
Scoop out of skin and store in containers .

Roasted Broccoli
Lay broccoli on tray
Spray with Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Sprinkle on top garlic powder and Himalayan salt
Bake at 400 degrees for 20 min.

You can use the same prep for these veggies with listed cook times:

Cauliflower, 20 min. 

Green Beans, 20 min. 

Asparagus, 10 min. 

How Much?
I absolutely loved Natalie’s simple “high five” method for portioning. All you need is your hand to get a rough idea of your portions.
To break it down again:
Greens- about the size of both your hands
Proteins - about the size of one hand
Starches - make a fist
Fats - pretty much just the tip of your thumb

Fueling Your Mind
There are plenty of videos out there to show you how to work out your booty and some healthy meals you can make, but to me the most important part of this episode was when Natalie dove into mindset. Ya’ll I was getting chills on set! This spoke to me in a way I hope speaks to you. Natalie stressed that our reasoning for wanting to do things like eating healthy and working out should be because WE LOVE OURSELVES. Our relationship with working out and food shouldn’t be looked at as “punishment” to ourselves, but instead should be approached as “I want fuel my body because I value myself”. She also talked about the way we talk to ourselves and “changing the script” we tell ourselves each day because so much of what we say to ourselves in negative. Without realizing it, we begin to walk out the things that we think, so it’s so important to take captive those thoughts and turn them into positive affirmations that we can begin to walk out instead.

Once again, I hope you found something useful to take away from this episode! Thanks for watching, thanks for reading.

We came. We saw. We adulted.



I remember bits and pieces of decking out my first kitchen.  My mom and I went to a Target across the street from my first apartment. I remember getting these cute little red plastic plates and bowls and non stick pans. I don’t think I cooked a single meal that didn’t either come from a box or wasn’t a sandwich prior to that. In fact, I’m pretty sure I was banned from helping to cook Thanksgiving dinner after I managed to ruin a sweet potato casserole and my pie didn’t set. Quite impressive actually how little I knew about navigating myself around a kitchen.  After that first big haul, I continued to collect little things along the way that I realized I would use while cooking. Random things like a lemon squeezer and zester (shout out to Rosanna Pansino for giving my first one in a little baking bundle she gave me). Both of which, I use way more often then I would’ve ever thought.. Even 5 years after my first kitchen deck out, I found myself adding items like a Kitchen Aid Mixer and a Crock Pot to my wedding registry! And trading my little red plates and bowls for some porcelain dinnerware from Home Goods. At least from my experience, figuring out what you may want/need in a kitchen can be a process. My goal, is to help take some of that pressure off and let you know what I learned along the way!

Where Do I Begin?
A good place to start is to think about the types of things you may be cooking and how many people you could be cooking for. Cause you might not need a giant pasta pot for two people or a cupcake tin if you don’t plan on baking. Here are a list of items to help get you started!

Cutting Board
Liquid measuring cup
Dry measuring cups
Measuring spoons
Mixing Bowls
10 Piece non-stick cookware set
Santoku Knife
Silicone cooking utensils (perfect for non stick cookware!)
Baking sheet (great for roasting veggies too!)
Glass baking dish
Oven mits
Kitchen Towels
Dinner Ware

The Extras
In this episode we spent just under $500 dollars to amp up Madi’s kitchen and that includes some extras like the Keurig (which run’s on the pricier side around $89) and the Lemon Rug. Both very cute, but not essential. Overtime though, you may want to expand your kitchen as your needs change . From the big to the small, the little extra items you may not need at first, but might want to add overtime.

Kitchen Aid mixer
Crock Pot
Can opener
Lemon Squeezer
Ice cream scooper
Wine bottle opener
Cupcake tin
Food containers (for leftovers or meal prep)
Spatula Set

Now Where Does it Go?
At the end of the day, there’s no perfect answer as to where everything goes as it’s case by case. I have found keeping utensils as close as you can to the stove top is a great place to start. Either in a nearby drawer or in a cute little container on your countertop. Also, keep in mind where your sink or dishwasher is and the storage close to that. Things like your plates and cups might go near this so it makes for easy clean up. I have found a miscellaneous drawer to be helpful as well for the random items I don’t always use (like our can opener and grater). And when it comes to storing silverware, it’s always nice to have a cutlery tray.

The First Time
Thanks for taking your time to read this post/watch the episode! I hope you found something helpful from it. Before I wrap up, I just wanted to share something about this episode. Even though this is the third adult(ed) release it was our first episode to film! Let me tell you, we had absolutely no clue what we we’re doing , but we had lots of fun making it. I was so thankful to film the first episode with my sister Madison and Brooke who was such a trooper as we figured out what the heck we were doing! It’s crazy to think how far we’ve come since filming this first episode back in November (I know, so long ago!). I really hope you continue to enjoy this series and hopefully learn something new! 7 more episodes to go this season! Any thoughts on what else we might discuss?

We came. We Saw. We Adulted.



Let’s Get Classy
 I have this love hate thing with the idea of hosting a dinner party. I love the idea of having people over and setting the scene with cute little plates and decor, but what do I feed them? Should there be music on? What about candles? Is that overkill, or fun? At the end of the day, the details don’t really matter, and it’s all about coming together with friends and sharing a meal. BUT it is nice to know that we’re all capable of more than just throwing out a pre-made cheese tray from the grocery store. Which *cough* I totally haven’t done. This episode of adult(ed) made stepping up my dinner party game feel not too out of reach after all.
Let’s dive in, shall we?

Dinner Vibes
One of the most important elements when having a dinner party is creating the ambiance. One way to set that is having the right music to fill the atmosphere throughout the night. I have found that a playlist that’s mostly instrumental easily fills the background in a nice way without getting in the way of conversation . I made a playlist for you to check out for your next dinner party and you can find that here. It’s filled with lo-fi to some modern, jazzy vibes.

The next thing you want to do is set the table. Candles are always an easy way to add some mood. Unscented are usually a good way to go for this, so it’s more about the look than a scent getting in the way of the yummy foods your guest will be smelling. Flowers are a personal favorite of mine to add some color to a table. I found MJ’S note about using smaller vases so you can see your guests across the table super helpful. I even applied this to my Thanksgiving dinner we hosted after filming this episode!

What’s on the Menu?

For Gatlin’s dinner party, we went with Italian cuisine along with a cheese tray appetizer. We got all the food for Gatlin’s dinner party for under $200. Keep in mind, this included flowers which were an extra as well as things for a bruschetta which we did not make in the end (we decided to go with one of Gatlin’s favorites to make - cucumber crostini). This is still a lot, but for three courses and a cheese tray this can be cheaper than going out. Some ways to cut the bill is to split the dishes between friends. Maybe have some of your friends bring a wine or dessert to bring down your part of the bill. However you decide to split that up, you just need to know what’s on the menu! In the mean time, we’ll help you out and share what we made for our dinner including a yummy Apple Crisp dessert.

Here is the grocery list of everything you will need:
3 types of cheeses: 2 semi-hard (Manchego, Edam), 1 soft (Brie, Gorgonzola, Camembert)
Coppa, salami- 1 package each
Red Grapes
Garnishes (See what you have in the fridge/pantry, mustard, peppered jelly, almonds, dried apricots, sliced apple. You have options here and you don’t need them all!)
1 bulb garlic
7 pints colored cherry tomatoes

1 baguette
Olive oil
Balsamic vinegar
Fresh basil
1 package unsalted butter
4 heads of romaine lettuce
1 med. Radicchio
1 small red onion
2 cans (15 oz) chickpeas (garbanzo beans)
6 oz. provolone cheese
Red wine vinaigrette
(bottle dressing)
3 lbs orecchiette (or penne or fussili or spaghetti)
Grated parmesan cheese
8 boneless/skinless chicken breast
12 honey crisp apples
White sugar
Ground cinnamon
Brown sugar
Old fashioned oats
AP flour
Vanilla bean ice cream

Now Let’s Get Cooking
Let’s start with one of the easiest parts…the cheese tray! The best way to build your cheese tray is with 3 different types. MJ, our expert for this episode, suggested 2 semi-hard and 1 soft cheese. Then add some salami or prosciutto if you like. From there, she suggested some garnishes you may already have, like mustard. I personally love adding some honey, a fruit like apples, and some almonds to round things up. Finally, slice the baguette into 1/2 inch slices to go along with your cheese board! You may want to have this ready on a tray in the fridge until you are ready to serve it to your guests.

Mix it up
The chopped salad! This might be even easier than the cheese tray.
1. Add the chopped romaine, radicchio, ½ of red onion sliced, celery, tomatoes in bite size pieces to a large bowl.
2. Drain chickpeas then add to bowl
3. Cut provolone cheese into ¼ cubes then add to salad
4. Toss with dressing
The Main Course
Pasta with roasted cherry tomatoes and basil (chicken on the side)

18 cups of halved cherry tomatoes
12 cloves of garlic, smashed
3 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
1 Tbsp oregano (roughly)
1 Tbsp olive oil
3 lbs orecchiette pasta

1. Heat oven to 425 degrees
2. Toss tomatoes in balsamic vinegar, oregano, garlic, olive oil then roast on a baking sheet for 15 minutes.
3. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Add pasta. Cook pasta until tender, but firm.
4. Drain (do not rinse) and place pasta in a bowl. Add tomatoes and all pan juices. Toss to combine, season with salt and pepper
5. Garnish with fresh basil and parmesan cheese

Chicken breast
1. Heat oven to 450 degrees
2. Season with salt and pepper, drizzle olive oil. Place on baking sheet, bake for 10 minutes. Make sure to cut the breast in the middle to check if it’s cooked all the way thru. Slice, place on platter. Sprinkle with parmesan cheese and fresh basil.

Dessert! Dessert!
For dessert (my personal favorite) we had a delicious apple crisp, which can be made a day in advance and take some of the stress off getting ready for your party!

Apple Crisp

12 apples, cored and sliced

6 tablespoons of white sugar

1 ½ teaspoons of ground cinnamon

3 cups brown sugar

1 ½ cups old fashioned oats

1 ½ cups AP flour

1 ½ cups cold butter

Sprig of mint

  1. Heat oven 350 degrees (F)

  2. Toss apples (peeled, cored and sliced thin) with white sugar and 1 teaspoon of cinnamon in bowl and coast. Pour into a baking dish

  3. Mix brown sugar, oats, flour and 1/2 teaspoon of cinnamon in separate bowl, then using a fork or pastry cutter, mash cold butter into the mixture. Should resemble coarse crumbs. Spread over apples.

  4. Bake until golden brown and sides are bubbling (about 45 minutes). If your oven tends to get hot, cover with foil.

  5. Serve with ice cream and sprig of mint.

Set The Table
For some reason, I had to learn how to do this in the 3rd grade and I made up a song that’s helped me to this day (and it helped me get an A on the quiz). From left to right - It goes napkin, then fork (I like to put this on top of the napkin), plate in the middle, knife and spoon on the right, then the cup in the right hand corner. But maybe your meal doesn’t require a spoon or knife? Another simple way to set the table is to lay the napkin on the plate with the fork on top. If you find yourself at a loss, pinterest is always a great place to seek inspiration.

Time to Party
Well, I hope you feel a little more confident in hosting your own dinner party! I definitely felt more equipped after this episode. At the end of the day, it’s just something fun to do! Especially as a house warming party or just an overdue get together with friends. Whatever you end up doing, let it reflect you! I would just suggest leaving out the paper plates and napkins and your good to go!

We came. We saw. We adulted.


adult(ed) EPISODE 1: Customizing Your Rental Space!

My First Place
My first apartment in LA, I had a mattress on the floor, a glass table and two plastic chairs - all from IKEA. I thought I would only be in LA for 3 months at the time, then that quickly turned to 6...then 12 months. Well, eventually I had to do something more with my space to make it feel like home! Being in a rental space, I was limited to what I could do. I couldn’t paint the walls, I was limited to the amount of things I could hang on the wall (unless I wanted to fill all those holes when I moved out), and I didn’t want to spend a whole lot of money on a place I didn’t know how long I’d be in.

Most likely, your first few places will all be rented, as well. So how do we go about making our mark without leaving a mark? I brought in my friend Julie Tecson to help us out with this in our first episode. She is the ultimate DIY queen and a renter herself. It has amazed me to see the creative ways she’s changed up her space and made it her own. All while limited to things like green and pink wall colors she currently can’t paint over.

If you are looking to make some changes to your space, here are some tips we covered in Episode 1!

Add Some Greenery
Adding greenery to your home literally livens it up. I don’t know what it is about having a little potted plant on a dresser or one in the corner of your room, but it instantly makes a space feel welcoming.
House plants can seem intimidating (although we will be talking more about those in a later episode), but if you currently want something more low maintenance here are some great fake plants you can check out.

IKEA Jade Artificial Potted Plant

Nearly Natural Snake Plant

Ahvoler Monstera Palm Leaves

Pure Garden Tropical Yucana Tree 

Keep in mind stores like Home Goods, IKEA, and Michaels have great options as well. You can also get lucky at places like GoodWill, which is where Julie got some of the greenery to create Marissa’s room divider!


Give Me All The DIYs
I love how many DIYs were incorporated in the transformation of Marissa’s space. It only took copper pipes, fittings, tees, glue, and a copper cutter to create a super simple and stylish headboard! If you want more details on the copper headboard, curtains, or room divider from the episodes, be sure to check out Julie’s blog where she talks all about the process! While you are there, be sure to explore her page to find even more creative ways to personalize your space. She’s got so many great “do it yourself” posts that you can check out!

Command Hooks Are Your Friend
Command hooks really come in handy when it comes to finding a non-damaging way to hang things in your rental space. I thought it was so creative how Julie made a make shift curtain rod with dowels and command hooks! Make sure you read the directions when utilizing command strips/hooks. We didn’t cover this in the episode, but usually there is a waiting period before you can hang your item on them once they are placed on the wall. Trust me when I say, be patient and wait the 30 minutes or hour (whatever it suggests) because I’ve gotten impatient and broken things this way because it wasn’t ready to support it.

Don’t Break The Bank
Remember, there are so many creative ways to bring updates to your space all while keeping within a budget! You can freshen up an old dresser with new hardware. You can keep an eye out for sales and snag a cozy rug for under $50 dollars. You can order prints of your photos and find frames at thrift stores. Even adding a pop of color with some pillows can transform a space! Keep in mind too, you don’t have to reach perfection overnight (even though we all want to). You can always tackle it one corner at a time as you customize your space! I still have to remind myself of this because there is so much I want to still do in our home. Enjoy where you are and enjoy the journey of creating.

We Did It
I’m so happy episode 1 of adult(ed) is out in the world! I hope you were able to learn something new. I know I did. We got 9 more episodes coming to you this season so be sure to keep checking back as we tackle this whole grown up thing one subject at a time.

We came. We saw. We adulted.


Happy 1 Year "My Kind of Party"!

I honestly can not believe it’s been ONE YEAR since I released my EP “My Kind of Party”! Honestly, there are still so many music videos I want to make from those songs. The songs from this mini album quickly became some of my favorite ones to perform, especially “Take Me Back”. I absolutely love how funky that one gets and kind of just want to make an entire funk inspired pop album because of it. If I had to pinpoint one song though it would have to be “Clueless”. The lyric is so simple, but it completely wrapped up everything I felt at the time into one simple word. Every time the chorus hits, it just feels right. I don’t think I’ve wanted a song to be heard by as many people as possible than with “Clueless”. When it comes to playing the songs acoustically “Favorite One” is my favorite one (sorry lol) to perform stripped down. “Checklist” is easily one of my favorite music videos I’ve done and “Nothing” (the only song on the EP I didn’t write) will forever be so special to me. From the moment it was first played for me in Keith Harris’s home, I knew I wanted it to be my voice who shared the story. I have to say, even though this EP wasn’t being blasted from every car or massively known, it’s one of my favorite little pieces of pop I’ve made to date and I’m still proud of it. Even the title track “My Kind of Party” has some melodies I will always love.
Thanks for listening. Thanks for watching. Let me know your favorite songs from the EP!

I'm on TWITCH!

So we FINALLY created a twitch account and it hasn’t even been a full week of streaming, but I’m absolutely loving it. Cooper and I have talked about this for over a year and we finally did it. We still have so much to do (we barely put up a profile picture yesterday), but it's fun getting to share my love of video games as well as play some live music on stream. Come join the party!